Sometimes i can’t help but to wonder why certain friends have lied to me in the past.
Though i’m glad i decided to stop communicating them because you don’t want to be with people who can’t be honest with you even avout the little things.
But i wonder, why would you lie about everything? Is it that they’re lives aren’t spectaculair so you have to make things up? Is it to play with other peoples feelings while you enjoy the troubles you’ve created?
Well, let me tell you, if you’re honest from the beginning, even if it might hurt telling the truth, then you create best friends for life.
You ruins peoples trust in you if you continuisly lie.
When that happend to, when i found out a friend had been lying from the beginning, even after i’ve been there when something important happened, i was shocked, and eventhough i continuid hanging out with him, i didn’t believe anything he said, cuz i know it were lies.
Lying ruins more than people think, and it all could be different if mindgames wouldn’t have been played.
And yes, there is a way to make it better, just man up to it, apologize for the lies and be honest after that.
It’s that simple.
Only ego’s, embarressement or denial, is usually blocking the way.
However, for those who don’t think they lied, or can’t see their faults it’s a different situation.
Then you’re either dealing with a pathological liar, or an compulsive liar.
Both are bad, it’s like an addiction for them.
I’m not really good at lying. I’m usually the first one to say what’s bothering me, if something is bothering me.
It didn’t used to be like that a few years, but i grew a little older, and i learned from expiriences and my own mistakes.
Please don’t lie to the ones you love, care about, or anyone else.
You’ll only hurt people and you’ll hurt your reputation, your credibility. People will remember you for that, no matter if you did change (or say you did).
It also makes it easier to let go of those people.
And besides, People eventually find out the truth anyways.